Jen Hatmaker and her former spouse Brandon Hatmaker first gained fame in 2014 with their HGTV series, My Big Family Renovation. Even years later, their divorce saga continues to capture public interest.
Although the reality series ran for only two seasons, audiences stayed engaged with the Hatmaker family and their five kids. Their candidness on social media made Jen’s 2020 announcement regarding their divorce even more shocking.
Recently, Jen shared insights about their separation in her memoir, Awake, where she disclosed that Brandon’s infidelity contributed to their breakup. This revelation has reignited interest in the ex-couple’s current lives.
Continue reading to learn more about Jen and Brandon’s family, including their new partners:
Jen Hatmaker
Born in August 1974, Jen is the eldest of four siblings—she has two sisters, Jana and Courtney, along with one brother, Drew. After 26 years of marriage, she and Brandon divorced in 2020, sharing five kids together.
A renowned author, podcaster, and book club leader, Jen lists her accomplishments on her official site, humorously noting her status as an Enneagram 3 with many awards displayed on her shelf.
Since 2021, she has been in a relationship with Tyler Merritt.
Brandon Hatmaker
Born in May 1972, Brandon shares five children with Jen. The couple ended their marriage in 2020 after over twenty years together. He is now married to Tina Hatmaker.
Brandon is recognized for his work as the founder of The Legacy Collective, an author, and a former pastor at Austin New Church, which he co-founded with Jen in 2008.
Gavin and Danielle Hatmaker
Gavin, the eldest of the Hatmaker children born in April 1998, is a Texas Tech graduate and is now happily married. He tied the knot with Danielle in March 2024, and the couple welcomed their first child, a son named Weston, in August 2025.
Sydney Hatmaker
Sydney, born in May 2000, is the first daughter of the couple. She completed her studies at the University of Texas at Austin in May 2023. Sydney has openly discussed her sexuality and her understanding of being a lesbian from a young age.
In May 2024, Jen expressed her admiration for her daughter on Instagram, describing Sydney as the freeest spirit she knows, someone who questions societal norms and the relentless hustle mentality.
Caleb Hatmaker
Caleb, born in June 2002, is known for being a free spirit. Jen humorously referred to him as quite the “wild child” on Facebook during his 24th birthday in June 2024. He has always aspired to serve in the military and began his journey with the Marines in January 2025, as highlighted on Jen’s Instagram.
Ben Hatmaker
Ben, the second youngest, was born in August 2003 and is the couple’s first adopted child from Ethiopia. Upon his 21st birthday in August 2024, Jen celebrated Ben on Instagram, commending him for simply being himself.
Remy Hatmaker
Remy is the youngest of the Hatmaker kids. Jen and Brandon welcomed her into their family at age five, adopting her from Ethiopia.
On Instagram, Jen described Remy as a beautiful soul, highlighting her sincerity and kindhearted nature in a world that can be quite challenging.
Weston Hatmaker
Weston, born in August 2025, is the first grandchild for Jen and Brandon, as he is the only son of Gavin and Danielle. Jen joyfully shared via Instagram about how “everything has changed” with Weston’s arrival, expressing her excitement about becoming a grandmother.
Tyler Merritt
Merritt crossed paths with Jen in 2021 in New York City, and they’ve been together ever since. He is a comedian, actor, and founder of The Tyler Merritt Project, having authored books such as I Take My Coffee Black released in 2021.
Tina Hatmaker
After his divorce from Jen, Brandon began a new chapter with Tina, who prefers to stay away from the limelight. On her Instagram, she presents herself as a proud mother and Texan.
In September 2025, Brandon clarified that Tina was not involved in the affair that led to his divorce from Jen, stating their relationship began only after the divorce proceedings were initiated.
