Rabbi Arielle Stein is redefining what it means to dress as a clergy member. For her, fashion is not just about self-expression; it is a way to embody the concept of hiddur mitzvah, or the beautification of commandments in Judaism. In a recent interview with Vogue, Rabbi Stein emphasized the importance of dressing thoughtfully and intentionally in her role as a rabbi.
What sets Rabbi Stein apart is her unique collection of shoes that she wears while performing liturgical duties. From pierced Tory Burch wedge mules to Gray Matters white mules with an egg-shaped heel symbolizing the cycle of life, her shoe choices are as eclectic as they are meaningful. Rabbi Stein even has a special pair of shoes dubbed her “bris shoes,” which she wore to both a bris ceremony and her own wedding.
Despite her unconventional footwear, Rabbi Stein insists that her fashion choices are subtle yet significant. She opts for small brands, with Gray Matters being her favorite for clergy-appropriate shoes that also showcase her artistic flair. These sculptural and artistic shoes strike the perfect balance between formality and creativity, reflecting Rabbi Stein’s belief that fashion can be both respectful and expressive.
In addition to her Gray Matters collection, Rabbi Stein also incorporates Nike Air Rift split-toe shoes for bar and bat mitzvah lessons, as well as a slashed, low-heeled pump for baby-naming ceremonies. Each pair of shoes tells a story and adds a personal touch to her rabbinic work.
As Rabbi Stein continues to challenge traditional norms of clergy attire, she hopes to inspire others to embrace their individuality and express themselves authentically. In a city like New York, where funky fashion is celebrated, Rabbi Stein’s unique style serves as a reminder that one’s outward appearance can be a powerful form of self-expression and connection to one’s beliefs.

