Andy Cohen has highlighted a significant challenge that many Real Housewives stars encounter after filming concludes.
The executive producer shared his insights with the cast of the latest series, The Real Housewives of Rhode Island, during the Thursday, March 2, episode of Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen.
In the segment, Cohen noted that many Housewives reignite conflicts after watching the show, even after resolving their differences with their castmates.
“As this season plays out, you’re going to hear a lot in confessionals from the other women. Try to stay in the place you are right now with each other,” Cohen, 57, advised the ladies.
He added, “This is a challenge that many veteran Housewives continue to struggle with. Just try to stay in the moment we’re in, in April of 2026.”
“But keep a list, and we’ll hash it out at the reunion,” he added as a caveat.
Cohen offered further advice to the new Housewives: Alicia Carmody, Rosie DiMare, Ashley Iaconetti, Liz McGraw, Rulla Nehme Pontarelli, Kelsey Swanson, and Jo-Ellen Tiberi. (The Real Housewives of New Jersey’s Dolores Catania also appears in the first season as a “friend” of the women.)
“Don’t believe the comments. Social media is not reality,” he stated. “It’s never as great or as bad as it feels like online.”
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Cohen continued, “Next, we love you for exactly who you are and how you are. Don’t change. We cast you all for a reason. Don’t change. Stay yourselves.”
“And don’t forget, as a Real Housewife, you are part of a chosen few. Enjoy this ride,” he said. “There are only just under 200 Real Housewives that have ever existed. You’re all famous around the world. You have been chosen. Enjoy this.”
Cohen gave the women one last piece of advice, quipping, “Maybe don’t start a podcast.”
The Real Housewives of Rhode Island premiered on Bravo on Thursday. The cast recently praised Housewives veteran Dolores, 55, with helping them adjust to life in front of the cameras.
“I think Dolores [is] like a mama bear,” newbie Jo-Ellen exclusively told Us Weekly recently. “Truthfully, anything that we needed — even even to this day — she will help.”
Jo-Ellen added, “She was just so kind and smart and caring. So it really was nice. It was a little cheat sheet to help us along the way.”
“When Dolores and I first met, we completely hit it off. We saw eye to eye. I felt her genuine vibe,” added fellow newcomer Rulla. “I love Dolores. I really do. I feel as though she’s brought a lot to the table. She’s been very candid. She’s been very genuine, speaking from experience.”
New episodes of The Real Housewives of Rhode Island air Sundays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo and stream the next day on Peacock.
