Billionaire media mogul Barry Diller has made a groundbreaking revelation in his new memoir, shedding light on his long-speculated sexuality. The 83-year-old, who has been married to fashion icon Diane von Furstenberg for over two decades, has finally come out as gay in his candid memoir.
Diller, a prominent figure in the media industry who has held key positions at Paramount and played a pivotal role in the launch of the Fox network, delves into his complex relationship with von Furstenberg in his memoir titled “Who Knew?”. In a portion of the book excerpted in the New Yorker, Diller shares his journey of self-discovery and acceptance of his homosexuality, all while maintaining his deep love and admiration for his wife.
The media magnate reflects on his life and the evolution of his sexuality, stating, “While there have been a good many men in my life, there has only ever been one woman.” Diller and von Furstenberg’s love story spans over five decades, marked by separations and reunions before culminating in a marriage in 2001. Despite the initial speculation surrounding their union, Diller emphasizes the authenticity and depth of their connection, labeling it as “the miracle of my life.”
Throughout his career and personal life, Diller grappled with the fear of coming out, a fear that he admits had a stronghold over him for many years. Despite the rumors and whispers surrounding his sexuality, Diller chose to keep this aspect of his life private, fearing the reaction of others. He candidly shares, “I had so much early career success you might have thought I’d conquered what I saw as the biggest danger in my developing life.”
In his memoir, Diller opens up about the internal struggle he faced in reconciling his sexuality with his public persona, revealing how he compartmentalized his feelings and kept them hidden away. The media mogul’s decision to come out now, after years of secrecy, marks a significant moment in his life and serves as a testament to his courage and authenticity.
As Diller’s memoir continues to make waves, his story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-acceptance and living authentically. The media mogul’s journey of self-discovery and coming out is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of embracing one’s true self.