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Parents Labeling a Kid’s Friend a Bad Influence Can Backfire

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November 7, 2024

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Parents Labeling a Kid’s Friend a Bad Influence Can Backfire

Is your kid in trouble? Blaming their friends is ill advised

By Francine Russo

Teenage girl getting a scolding from her mother in the living room.

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Parents have historically pointed fingers at their teenagers’ misbehavior on their friends, often attributing their kids’ wrongdoing to falling into “bad company” or associating with the “wrong crowd.” In response to what they perceive as negative influences, parents have employed various tactics, from criticizing the questionable companions to completely prohibiting any contact. This parental reaction has been observed globally, from the Netherlands to China, as documented in studies.

However, research in child psychology suggests that labeling a child’s friend as a bad influence and imposing restrictions can actually have adverse effects. Contrary to the intended outcome, such actions can backfire and exacerbate behavioral issues. Studies have shown that parental disapproval or limitations on interactions with purportedly negative peers can lead to an increase in problematic behaviors, such as vandalism, theft, and arson, among adolescents.

A study conducted by Utrecht University in the Netherlands, titled “Forbidden Friends as Forbidden Fruit,” highlighted this phenomenon by demonstrating that when parents forbid their children from associating with friends who have gotten into trouble, the children are more likely to seek out and bond with these prohibited friends, resulting in a escalation of their own delinquent behaviors.


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The dynamics of these interactions involve a complex interplay of motivations. Recent research by Florida Atlantic University psychologist Brett Laursen and co-author Goda Kaniušonytė explores this complexity by examining the emotional and behavioral patterns of Lithuanian children aged 9 to 14 in relation to their relationships with peers and parental disapproval. The findings revealed that when children faced behavioral issues and their mothers disapproved of their friends, these peers reciprocated the dislike towards the child, leading to a worsening of the child’s behavior.

The link between behavior problems and social rejection aligns with the understanding that adolescents, in their quest for identity formation, resist parental control and seek autonomy. By intervening in their children’s friendships, parents risk alienating their children and undermining the parent-child relationship. This insight underscores the importance of maintaining a close and supportive bond with children during their formative years.

In navigating the complexities of adolescence, family therapist Vanessa Bradden advises parents to refrain from passing judgment on their children’s friendships and instead strive to understand their perspective. While addressing concerning behaviors is essential, isolating children from friends may not be the most effective approach. Open communication, empathy, and guidance can foster positive social skills and emotional development in adolescents.

Clinical psychologist Erica Lee from Boston Children’s Hospital emphasizes the significance of staying calm and seeking to comprehend the underlying reasons for a child’s actions before considering punitive measures. Maintaining a dialogue with children, exploring their motivations, and offering support are crucial in addressing behavioral issues effectively.

Ultimately, parental intervention in children’s friendships should aim to nurture a supportive and understanding environment that promotes healthy social interactions and fosters positive development. By fostering a strong parent-child relationship based on trust and communication, parents can guide their children through the challenges of adolescence and empower them to make informed choices in their relationships.

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