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What Is “the Ick“? The Truth About Instant Disgust in Dating

Last updated: July 26, 2025 2:20 pm
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Have you ever experienced “the ick” in a relationship? That feeling of discomfort or repulsion towards someone, even if it’s over something as seemingly trivial as their fashion choices? Well, it turns out that the ick might not be as shallow as it seems. While personal preferences play a role in what triggers the ick, it can also serve as a warning sign of deeper issues lurking beneath the surface.

Unpacking the ick: Is it just a matter of taste?

As dating coach Hussey explains, the ick can stem from aesthetics, mannerisms, or personality quirks, which are more about personal taste than anything else. For example, if you can’t stand someone wearing a fedora, that might just be a matter of preference rather than a red flag. Hoang emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between the ick based on taste and the ick that signals a potential red flag.

When the ick becomes a red flag

Sometimes, the ick can actually be a warning sign of deeper issues within a relationship. Red flags, as Hussey points out, are rooted in values, morals, or behavior, such as speaking negatively about an ex, displaying aggression, or showing a lack of empathy. These behaviors reflect larger issues like emotional immaturity, entitlement, or manipulative tendencies. It’s crucial to differentiate between the ick and red flags to determine if the relationship is truly safe and sustainable long-term.

Hoang suggests asking yourself whether the ick is merely a matter of taste or if it signifies a fundamental incompatibility with who you are as a person.

Overcoming the ick: Can the relationship be salvaged?

If you realize that your ick is unfounded and not a red flag, there’s still hope for the relationship. Often, the ick is more about our own fears and insecurities than the other person’s actions. Hussey advises taking a curious approach to understand what triggers the ick and why it evokes such a strong reaction.

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To navigate through the ick, Hoang recommends the following steps:

  • Pause: Give yourself time to process the ick, as it may pass or lessen over time.
  • Reflect: Consider whether the ick stems from your own fears of intimacy or perfectionism.
  • Zoom out: Evaluate the person’s overall values and how they treat you beyond the ick-inducing behaviors.
  • Be honest: Determine if you can fully accept the person, flaws and all.

By following these steps and exploring the root causes of the ick, you may be able to overcome your initial aversion and build a stronger, more understanding relationship.

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