The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of relaxation and joy, filled with warm beverages and quality time with loved ones. However, for many people, the reality is quite different. Finding true rest and relaxation during the busy December holidays can be a challenge, leaving many feeling stressed and overwhelmed. So why do the holidays promise rest but often fail to deliver? And is it possible to achieve more restorative rest during this hectic time of year?
As a psychologist who specializes in studying how rest supports learning, creativity, and well-being, I understand the importance of restorative downtime. While many people associate rest with sleep, it’s essential to recognize that humans also need active rest periods while awake. These periods can involve engaging in physical, social, and creative activities throughout the day, rather than simply lounging on the couch.
During the holiday season, when stress levels tend to soar, taking time for rest is crucial. Rest periods can help replenish depleted psychological resources, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being. However, true rest goes beyond just lounging around—it involves intentionally scheduling activities that energize and rejuvenate us.
Research has shown that engaging in enjoyable and fulfilling activities is key to experiencing the full benefits of rest. Whether it’s going for a walk in nature, socializing with friends, listening to music, or pursuing creative hobbies, these activities play a vital role in supporting mental health and well-being.
It’s important to note that not all idle time is restorative. The effectiveness of rest periods depends on how satisfying they are to the individual. Engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfillment is essential for achieving true rest and relaxation.
To combat the challenges of poor rest cycles, it’s crucial to plan for active rest and pleasant activities. By designing, scheduling, and engaging in enjoyable activities, individuals can lower symptoms of depression and anxiety, break cycles of poor rest, and improve overall well-being.
During the holiday season, it’s easy to feel guilty about taking time for rest and relaxation. Leisure guilt, which involves feeling distressed about engaging in relaxing activities instead of being productive, can undermine the benefits of rest. To combat leisure guilt, it’s important to lower expectations, engage in immersive restful activities, and accept any feelings of guilt that may arise.
By making small adjustments and taking intentional actions to prioritize rest, individuals can experience true relaxation and rejuvenation during the holiday season and beyond. Good rest is essential for overall well-being, and with the right approach, it can be within reach for everyone.
This article was originally published on The Conversation. Read the original article for more insights into the importance of rest during the holidays.

