In a recent Netflix documentary titled Rebel Royals: An Unlikely Love Story, Princess Märtha Louise of Norway and her partner Durek Verrett have uncovered several surprising aspects of their relationship, thrilling viewers since its premiere on September 16. This intimate portrayal takes audiences through their love journey, showcasing the couple’s audacity to break royal norms, notably their public announcement of their relationship on social media.
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Breaking Royal Protocol: Märtha Louise and Durek Verrett
‘Rebel Royals: An Unlikely Love Story’ premiered on Netflix on September 16.
“You can’t just announce things and not inform anyone!” one member of their team reportedly exclaimed during the documentary.
The couple made their love official with a heartwarming Instagram announcement in May 2019. In the post, Märtha Louise revealed her deep connection to Durek, describing him as her “twin flame” and a transformative presence in her life.
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Navigating Public Perception
Princess Märtha Louise and Durek Verrett began dating in 2019.
As their romance blossomed, the couple faced considerable media scrutiny. Durek noted that the press had negative biases towards him, saying, “They don’t want a bisexual Black man marrying their princess.” He then revealed a shocking encounter at a royal dinner in Denmark, where a guest crassly referenced his heritage in a demeaning manner.
Märtha expressed her frustrations with the media portrayal of their relationship, highlighting that people perceived Durek as a potential threat to the royal family due to his unconventional spiritual beliefs.
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A Cultural Shift Following the Sussexes’ Revelations
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle had a tell-all interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2021.
Further recognition of the racial challenges faced by Durek came when King Harald reached out following Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s tell-all interview with Oprah Winfrey. Durek revealed that, prior to the interview, his family had little understanding of racism, citing their bewilderment over his discussions about racial issues.
It was after this public discourse that the royal family gained insights into the biases faced by Durek, prompting a family discussion and a subsequent press release addressing these important issues.
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First Impressions: Meeting the Royals
Durek Verrett met the King and Queen dressed unconventional fashion.
Durek met the King and Queen eight months into his relationship with Märtha, showcasing his unique style in a kimono and cowboy boots, as he was encouraged to be himself. He expressed surprise at their reaction, feeling misunderstood and out of place amidst royal expectations.
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Support in Times of Tragedy
Ari Behn tragically passed away on December 25, 2019.
Following the tragic suicide of her ex-husband, Ari Behn, on Christmas Day of 2019, Märtha found solace and strength in Durek. She shared how he became a crucial pillar of support during her mourning, illustrating their deep emotional bond as they navigated through immense sorrow together.
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Reflections on Royal Responsibilities
Princess Märtha Louise relinquished her official duties in 2022.
Throughout Rebel Royals, Märtha candidly expresses her feelings about stepping away from her royal duties. “I still identify as a princess, and my family will undoubtedly be present at my wedding. However, I’ve relinquished my formal role, which means I’m no longer invited to official state events or galas — and that has been somewhat disheartening,” she explained.
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Redefining Identity
Durek Verrett identifies beyond traditional labels of sexuality.
Durek Verrett shared his unique perspective on sexuality, stating, “I don’t identify as strictly straight or gay. It transcends gender for me; it’s about the energy a person gives off.” Interestingly, Märtha’s daughters initially thought Durek was gay, reflecting their open-minded attitudes toward identity.
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Resilience Amid Health Challenges
Durek Verrett experienced significant health challenges in his youth.
Durek also reflected on a life-altering health scare that brought him closer to his true self. After experiencing kidney failure, he recounted a near-death experience that shaped his understanding of identity and destiny, motivating him to embrace his path as a shaman.
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The Current Health Struggles of Durek Verrett
Durek Verrett is currently on regular dialysis to ‘stay alive.’
Currently, after a previous kidney transplant, Durek Verrett undergoes dialysis three times a week to survive. Despite his declining health, Märtha expressed her support and desire to help him find a living donor.
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Sharing an Inside Perspective
Durek Verrett shares a unique spiritual perspective on his identity.
Throughout Rebel Royals, Durek describes the multitude of personas existing within him, emphasizing the complex nature of identity. “I carry the spirit of a child, a woman, and a diva as parts of my essence,” he shared, illustrating his connection to a shared spirituality with Märtha.