If you take a moment to reminisce about celebrity relationships from the early 2000s, one pair that might come to mind is Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal. Did they truly date, or does it just feel like they were meant to be?
Rest assured, youâre not dreamingâDunst and Gyllenhaal were indeed a couple for nearly two years. At the time of their meeting, she was just 20, while he was 22, with both being stunning and on the rise in Hollywood. They appeared to be a match made in heaven, so why has their relationship become a mere footnote in history?
The Beginning
Whatâs not to love about an enthusiastic A-list sibling? Gyllenhaalâs sister, Maggie, a talented actress herself, formed a friendship with Dunst during the filming of Mona Lisa Smile in 2002. Believing Dunst to be a better match for her brother than co-stars like Julia Roberts and Julia Stiles, she played matchmaker. They soon embarked on a romantic relationship.
Duration of Their Romance
Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal in 2004 ©BAUER-GRIFFIN.COM
This couple moved quickly, even cohabiting and adopting a German Shepherd named Atticus as a symbol of their literary flair. Their romance blossomed during the heyday of paparazzi culture, leading to many moments captured in public, including a memorable outing in London where Gyllenhaal was photographed gazing in disbelief as Dunst enjoyed her saladâwithout utensils.
However, their relationship came to an end after nearly two years.
The Breakup
In July 2004, Gyllenhaalâs representative Stephen Huvane announced to People that the beloved couple had parted ways. âKirsten and Jake are still the best of friends,â he stated. âDetails about when and why their romantic relationship ended are not being disclosed, but itâs worth mentioning that it happened some time ago. They remain close.â
Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal in 2004 Dave Benett/Getty Images
Speculation arose that the couple struggled to find common ground: Dunst enjoyed lively nights out, while Gyllenhaal was more inclined to stay in, but neither shared the real reasons for their split.
Reflections on Each Other
Throughout their time together, Dunst was quite candid about their relationshipâs potentialâor lack thereof. âIâm too young to get married,â she remarked to People in 2004 shortly before they broke up. âSeriously, Iâm just 22. Itâs frustrating how often thereâs pressure regarding marriage.â
Gyllenhaal also offered his thoughts on their romance at that time. âKirsten and I understand whatâs real and what isnât,â he said. âItâs a complex situation when both partners are actors.â
Just a few months after their breakup in 2005, Gyllenhaal shared with Telegraph insights about his tumultuous relationships. âAt 24, my relationships will inevitably be filled with drama,â he stated. âIâm figuring out who I am, so how can I truly know who I am when Iâm in a relationship? Society has these inflated ideas of love and how we should behave, influenced by a narrative that typically ends in reunion, but I think this leads many in my generation to dissatisfaction.â
Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal in 2003 ©BAUER-GRIFFIN.COM
Current Perspectives
While theyâve largely kept their feelings about the breakup private, in 2005, Gyllenhaal mentioned to Howard Stern on Sirius XM that he had experienced âreal loveâ only twice, leading many to speculate that Dunst was one of themâadding that he felt responsible for his past relationship failures.
âIt was me, man. I think I just got intimidated,â he reflected. âI adore love, seriously.â
In 2009, Dunst shared with Allure that, despite the claims in the official breakup announcement, they had drifted apart. âIâd love to see him again,â she expressed, âbut weâre not close friends any longer.â
Key Takeaways from Their Relationship
Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal in 2003 Dimitrios Kambouris/WireImage
Itâs common for most individuals not to remain with their first love, particularly when theyâre young and famous. Their relationship naturally ran its course. Interestingly, the dog they adored, Atticus, outlived their romance, passing away in 2015 after over a decade with Gyllenhaal.
As of today, Dunst is happily married to her Fargo co-star Jesse Plemons, and together they have two children born in 2018 and 2021.
Meanwhile, Gyllenhaal may still be awaiting the right partner, but he has a history of high-profile relationships, including a notable one with Taylor Swift. Currently, heâs dating model Jeanne Cadieu, with whom he maintains a low profile. In 2022, he expressed, âI love her immensely. Sheâs an incredible person.â