Hair braiding is more than just a hairstyle. It is a cultural tradition that tells a story of womanhood, age, and heritage. For Brehan, a 37-year-old bride-to-be in Dallas with Ethiopian and Eritrean roots, getting her hair braided for her mels, or reception, was a way to honor her identity and the deep love she holds for both sides of her culture.
Brehan made it clear to her bridesmaids that everyone would be getting their hair braided for the ceremony. It wasn’t just about aesthetics, but about honoring something meaningful and significant. The decision to wear braids was a deliberate choice to reconnect with her roots and pay homage to her heritage.
In preparation for the big day, Brehan and her braider spent four hours doing a practice run of the Asa Shuruba hairstyle. Asa Shuruba, which translates to fish braids, is a traditional style worn by women in Ethiopia’s Amhara region for special occasions like weddings and rites of passage. The intricate braids are done directly on the scalp, creating a fish-like silhouette with raised center braids and delicate cornrows fanning out towards the back and sides.
The practice run was not just about perfecting the hairstyle, but also a glimpse into the communal experience that awaited them on the morning of the traditional ceremony. The plan was to have all the women gather in one room, getting braided and having henna applied nearby. The atmosphere would be filled with laughter and camaraderie, creating a sense of home and belonging.
Hair braiding is a way for Brehan and others like her to reclaim and celebrate their cultural heritage. It is a way to connect with the past, honor traditions that were at risk of disappearing, and create new memories that will be cherished for years to come. By embracing the art of braiding, Brehan is not just styling her hair, but weaving a narrative of identity, pride, and belonging.
