James Van Der Beek’s stylist, Ilaria Urbinati, recently shared heartfelt memories of her friendship with the late actor and his dedication to supporting his family during his battle with cancer. In an emotional Instagram post, Urbinati reflected on the 15 years of friendship she shared with Van Der Beek, recounting their fittings, shared parenting experiences, and the bond that grew between them over the years.
She spoke of Van Der Beek’s love for clothes, his infectious laugh, and the way he and his wife Kimberly welcomed her into their lives as a friend and eventually as family. Urbinati also highlighted the actor’s deep love for his wife and children, describing him as warm, generous, and open-hearted. Despite facing stage III colorectal cancer, Van Der Beek continued to work hard to provide for his family, displaying serenity and joy in the face of adversity.
Kimberly Van Der Beek confirmed her husband’s passing at the age of 48, expressing gratitude for his courage, faith, and grace in his final days. The couple shared six children together, and Kimberly asked for privacy as they grieve the loss of their beloved husband, father, son, brother, and friend.
Following James’ death, a GoFundMe campaign was launched to support his family, who were facing financial challenges due to high medical costs. The campaign quickly surpassed its goal, raising over $1 million in less than a day to help ease the financial burden on the Van Der Beek family.
The outpouring of support and love for James Van Der Beek and his family serves as a testament to the impact he had on those around him. His legacy of love, generosity, and strength in the face of adversity will continue to inspire all who knew him.

